Comments on: validation http://wonlife.wordpress.com/2008/07/31/validation/ Be kind whenever possible. It is always possible. Wed, 04 Nov 2009 21:10:05 +0000 http://wordpress.com/ hourly 1 By: Meander http://wonlife.wordpress.com/2008/07/31/validation/#comment-626 Meander Sat, 09 Aug 2008 15:36:55 +0000 http://wonlife.wordpress.com/?p=440#comment-626 oh my goodness! yes peep louder! you are heard! i do think what happens is that people just get sucked into the drama of their own lives and...blogging takes a back seat at times. with my great fluctuations in moods i am quite often distant and then i come back to attempting to re-connect and i feel like a modern day rip van winkle. anyways...you matter! you are important and worthy and i have always loved reading you from the very beginning. so keep writing. keep reaching out. keep connecting. sometimes it takes awhile but you are definitely heard. oh my goodness! yes peep louder! you are heard! i do think what happens is that people just get sucked into the drama of their own lives and…blogging takes a back seat at times. with my great fluctuations in moods i am quite often distant and then i come back to attempting to re-connect and i feel like a modern day rip van winkle.

anyways…you matter! you are important and worthy and i have always loved reading you from the very beginning. so keep writing. keep reaching out. keep connecting. sometimes it takes awhile but you are definitely heard.

]]> By: Sherry http://wonlife.wordpress.com/2008/07/31/validation/#comment-624 Sherry Thu, 07 Aug 2008 01:13:34 +0000 http://wonlife.wordpress.com/?p=440#comment-624 I read your blog. I hear ya. :-) I read your blog. I hear ya. :-)

]]> By: Thoughts on Blogging — Comments, Validation and Why We Need the Audience | Growing Happiness http://wonlife.wordpress.com/2008/07/31/validation/#comment-623 Thoughts on Blogging — Comments, Validation and Why We Need the Audience | Growing Happiness Tue, 05 Aug 2008 11:58:44 +0000 http://wonlife.wordpress.com/?p=440#comment-623 [...] wrote a interesting entry on blog validation in the form of comments at his blog One Life. I think most of us share what he [...] [...] wrote a interesting entry on blog validation in the form of comments at his blog One Life. I think most of us share what he [...]

]]> By: Rachel M http://wonlife.wordpress.com/2008/07/31/validation/#comment-620 Rachel M Fri, 01 Aug 2008 02:51:55 +0000 http://wonlife.wordpress.com/?p=440#comment-620 I subscribe your blog, so I read your blog regularly. I live with ME/CFS. Despite of MS and ME/CFS share some similar symptoms, I hardly see people with MS and ME/CFS mixing or be friends. I feel there are invisible wall between us, although I see our frustrations and limitations are the same. I use blog as a coping tool. And I assumed that it is for you, too. I like your blog, and I like your photos and I found Haiku site via your blog. I should have thanked you for that. I don't leave comment because I don't know what to say... I subscribe your blog, so I read your blog regularly. I live with ME/CFS. Despite of MS and ME/CFS share some similar symptoms, I hardly see people with MS and ME/CFS mixing or be friends. I feel there are invisible wall between us, although I see our frustrations and limitations are the same.
I use blog as a coping tool. And I assumed that it is for you, too. I like your blog, and I like your photos and I found Haiku site via your blog. I should have thanked you for that. I don’t leave comment because I don’t know what to say…

]]> By: Chantal http://wonlife.wordpress.com/2008/07/31/validation/#comment-619 Chantal Thu, 31 Jul 2008 19:04:31 +0000 http://wonlife.wordpress.com/?p=440#comment-619 which by the way if you really are interested is: http://chantalpowell.wordpress.com/ which by the way if you really are interested is:
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]]> By: Chantal http://wonlife.wordpress.com/2008/07/31/validation/#comment-618 Chantal Thu, 31 Jul 2008 19:02:03 +0000 http://wonlife.wordpress.com/?p=440#comment-618 I hear you! It really is a compulsion to share part of yourself with others isn't it. In a world where so many of our meetings with people go no further than to ask "what do you do then?" I think we are desperate to disclose and find out more intimate details about people - even if those details are as trivial as what you thought about as you were brushing your teeth this morning they are probably say more about a person than what they do "9 till 5". I guess we all just want to be known really don't we. So I hope you are straight off to check out my new blog now lol! Validate me! I hear you!
It really is a compulsion to share part of yourself with others isn’t it. In a world where so many of our meetings with people go no further than to ask “what do you do then?” I think we are desperate to disclose and find out more intimate details about people – even if those details are as trivial as what you thought about as you were brushing your teeth this morning they are probably say more about a person than what they do “9 till 5″. I guess we all just want to be known really don’t we.
So I hope you are straight off to check out my new blog now lol! Validate me!

]]> By: Kim http://wonlife.wordpress.com/2008/07/31/validation/#comment-617 Kim Thu, 31 Jul 2008 17:44:16 +0000 http://wonlife.wordpress.com/?p=440#comment-617 Well now I have to comment on this posting! Sometimes I'm amazed at what postings folks comment on, on my blog too. And then those postings that I think would evoke a conversation about a topic doesn't happen! It's all about expectations in my world. My blog has always been a way for me to better understand my disease and share a bit about my life with it, so it's more my own personal journey that I can only hope comments, or not, someone is appreciating looking in on. That being said, I like your blog! I've been reaidng it for years I do believe! And I'm one of those that don't comment often when I know I should. So keep at it my friend :) Well now I have to comment on this posting! Sometimes I’m amazed at what postings folks comment on, on my blog too. And then those postings that I think would evoke a conversation about a topic doesn’t happen! It’s all about expectations in my world. My blog has always been a way for me to better understand my disease and share a bit about my life with it, so it’s more my own personal journey that I can only hope comments, or not, someone is appreciating looking in on.
That being said, I like your blog! I’ve been reaidng it for years I do believe! And I’m one of those that don’t comment often when I know I should. So keep at it my friend :)

]]> By: Lisa Emrich http://wonlife.wordpress.com/2008/07/31/validation/#comment-616 Lisa Emrich Thu, 31 Jul 2008 16:02:19 +0000 http://wonlife.wordpress.com/?p=440#comment-616 I hear you. I don't always have something to say which I think would add to your thoughts. But I do understand the feeling of talking into thin air at times. I enjoy reading your tales in which you tell it like it is, like the recent post about not wanting to get back on the computer once you get home. I can understand that desire. So here's to let you know that you are heard. I hear you. I don’t always have something to say which I think would add to your thoughts. But I do understand the feeling of talking into thin air at times. I enjoy reading your tales in which you tell it like it is, like the recent post about not wanting to get back on the computer once you get home. I can understand that desire. So here’s to let you know that you are heard.

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